For those involved the wedding speeches can be one of the most feared moments of the day.

And just to pile on the pressure, more than 1 in 2 wedding guests claim a bad speech has almost ruined the day.

But fear not, whether you’re the groom, father of the bride, best man, or even the bride, Sheraton Hotel have some tips to help in this infographic.

Wedding Speeches 101 A Cheat Sheet for the Bridal Party